There are only two types of people in the world: people who do what they say they’re going to do when they say they’re going to do it, and people who don’t do what they say they’re going to do when they say they’re going to do it.
I am the first type. I do what I say I am going to do. Unless, of course, I’m stuck. I hate getting stuck.
All of us, despite best intentions or track records of follow through, often find we’re lost, confused, undecided, doubtful and ambiguous. We’re frozen in place in the larger context of life, even as we manage to look busy and ooze a pretend-kind of happy.
When it comes to inventing life – a new or continued career, different view out the window, ways to make money, different people to hang with, better focused choices, more engaged productivity – the whole darn thing is daunting.
We think about how we might change. We think how life could be even better. We think we should start thinking about our last third of life.
Time passes and we drift around in our thoughts.
It’s not you that’s the problem. It’s the process. (more…)